How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 16:36

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Procrastinates a lot.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What type of sex do women prefer, oral, anal, or vaginal?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What I need from you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
If you were president, how would you make America "great again?"
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Why should we share our wife with others?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
That's it for today.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How do you get people to follow your Quora Space?
Hangs out with loser friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Has your wife or girlfriend ever been felt up in public by a stranger?
Does not procrastinate.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What can you do if someone makes a false accusation against you?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Ask yourself:
Why do narcissist move on so easily?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
My blog is new. I need 10 article posts for my blog. How much should I pay for it?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.